He ara whakamua – the journey of our wāhine toward brighter days.

A student’s reflection on our Wāhine Programme

As part of my social work degree at Manukau Institute of Technology, I’ve been privileged to undertake my placement at Te Whare Ruruhau O Meri. One of the most meaningful experiences during my time here has been supporting our kaiārahi in delivering Te Kawa o te Marae as part of the Wāhine Non-Violence and Safety Programmes.

Grounded in Te Ao Māori and enriched by a cross-cultural lens, this transformative ten-week journey uplifts and empowers wāhine—strengthening their tikanga and nurturing their sense of self. It’s a space where connection, reflection, and growth are honoured and encouraged.

Recently, I was fortunate to witness a beautiful evolution in how we mark the completion of this programme. A new graduation ceremony was held to celebrate our wāhine, to not only acknowledge their personal milestones, but also recognise the collective journey shared with whānau and the kaimahi who walk alongside them.

The day began with a powerful karanga, welcoming whānau into Te Whare and acknowledging the occasion’s significance. As the wāhine toa stood in front of her whānau—surrounded by those who had supported her every step of the way—she received a taonga symbolising her resilience, courage, and transformation.

“When I felt lost, Te Whare Ruruhau was my home, my connection. Elyse (her kaiarahi) was my rock,” she reflected. “I will acknowledge my past, but use the tools I’ve learned to move forward.”

These heartfelt words reflect the programme’s true essence: healing, empowerment, and the strength that comes from community. It was an absolute honour to be part of this celebration—a powerful reminder that when we uplift wāhine, we uplift whānau, and ultimately, the wider hapori.